Today, we’re meeting Debbi Branch — a First Marine Mom who’s thankful for, of all things, the chance to drive a real Hummer, shoot a rifle, drive a tank, and so much more. Here’s Debbie’s story…
What’s your hometown, and when did you join the Marines? Can you tell us a little about why you joined, what MOS you held, when you left the Marines and why?
I was born in Manchester, Conn. I joined the Marines in 1984. My oldest brother was also a Marine, but he joined when I was just a one-year-old. My other brother was in the Army, and both are Vietnam Vets. I had no discipline in college, and did not like my major, so I dropped out. I had been working in a store for four years as a department manager when a female soldier came in. It peaked my interest so I started talking to recruiters, and the Marines were the best salesmen, or they would not take no for an answer. I wanted to grow up since I was the baby, and everyone still treated me that way even at 24. I wanted a new career, but it is hard to get one as a civilian without experience. The Marines would give me both. My MOS was 3043 – Supply Administration. I was medically discharged from the Corps in 1995.
When were you pregnant and where were you stationed during your pregnancy?
I was actually pregnant twice while I was in. First time, I was a corporal at Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii, in 1989. I miscarried at 3 1/2 months. I did not know I was pregnant right away because I had false alarms before, so I kept running – once with my unit and once trying to see if I could run home to our apartment out in town, six miles. Both times, I had cramps, but did not think anything about it. Once I knew I was pregnant, then I went on light duty. So whether the miscarriage was from the running or something else, I will never know. The second time I was pregnant, I was a sergeant in 1991, and I was stationed at Camp Pendleton, Calif.
What was your greatest struggle while being pregnant as a Marine? Were you given any special consideration for your condition? For example, were you dismissed from standing in formation for inspections?
After my miscarriage, I was given one week of bed rest and then back to work at full duty. I realize now I should have been given some light duty once I went back to work to completely recover. I remember a male Marine being shocked to see me right back out running with the unit.
When I was pregnant the second time, I worked in a small office, with just a major, staff sergeant, corporal, and me. It was during the first Gulf War and we did TAD (temporary additional duty) for the Marines coming and going for a Marine Air Group. Of course the squadrons would have had more formations than our tiny office. In my experience, once you had a blood test to prove you were pregnant, they put you on light duty. I worked right through Thursday, November 21, 1991, and my son was born the next day.
What did you think of the new maternity uniform?
After having a miscarriage, I did not want everyone to know I was pregnant the second time until I passed four months, so I wore cammies until then. The day I walked in with my maternity uniform and proud happy baby bump, someone said “Where did that come from?”
Did you decide to breastfeed, or did you decide not to breastfeed because of the need to return to Marine Corps duty in six weeks? If you continued to breastfeed, were there particular challenges to the process because you were a Marine?
I did breastfeed, but only during my time off. It was partly due to having to return to work, but also because my son was a big eater, being born at 9 pounds.
As a Marine mom, what were your greatest challenges during that era of being a “first Marine mom”? Do you feel moms today, Marines or civilians, have the same problems?
Twenty-four-hour duty and not being able to see your baby. Finding a babysitter when I took my 6-month-old son to Okinawa, Japan. Daycare was mainly for families staying for three years and I had orders for one. Working moms—civilian or military—all have issues and challenges. Military moms have to deal with getting orders to ship out to a war zone. After my divorce, a staff sergeant in the admin office threatened to put me out in 48 hours if I did not come up with an emergency plan for my son in case of deployment because he was friends with my ex-husband, who was also a Marine.
If the woman you are today could speak in the ear of the woman she was in the 1980s, what would you whisper to her?
Enjoy it! Make as many memories as you can as a Marine, woman and mom. See more, do more, accomplish more, and value myself more as a person. Get divorced in 1992, instead of 1994. LOL!
I understand you’re in the mortgage business. As a former Marine, do you find certain skills you gained as a Marine helpful in your business? Can you share a little about this?
Supply Admin usually goes hand in hand with fiscal or budget admin because the supply officer usually wears both hats. I had an amazing major, Major Williams, who made me his fiscal clerk. I found out I had a love for working with numbers and was good at it. It got my foot in the door at a bank to start my career in Mortgage Banking that is going on 15 years. My present bosses say they love my discipline and ability to follow orders.
Is there anything else you’d like to add about being a “first Marine mom”?
I am glad that my son and I are part of Marine history. He was born at Camp Pendleton, got to live in Okinawa for a year, and we drove cross-country to start our new life in Florida after I was discharged. I can tell my grandkids I drove a real hummer, shot a rifle, and tried to drive a tank. If I had not walked into a recruiting station to change my life, where would I be today?
Thank you, Debbi, for your service, and for sharing your story.